Embracing Your Power From Within
Redefining Professionalism
In the vast tapestry of life, the topic of professionalism weaves its threads into every corner, whether at work or with friends. Merrium Webster defines professionalism as “the skill, good judgment, and polite behavior that is expected from a person who is trained to do a job well”. In 2004 a University in the UK opined “‘Professionalism’ is commonly understood as an individual’s adherence to a set of standards, code of conduct or collection of qualities that characterize accepted practice within a particular area of activity”. Professionalism is not merely a set of standards but a reflection of accepted practices within society.
So naturally, our beliefs around professionalism influences our choices and shapes our perceptions. Setting racial and sex biases aside, could someone’s hair color sway you in believing they are more or less professional? Our backgrounds, experiences, and cultures shape our definitions. I, too, once viewed professionalism through the lens of societal expectations, molded by teachers, family, and employers. Yet, in the journey of life, my definition has evolved. I've faced setbacks, tasted failure, and navigated through career transitions. These experiences reshaped perspectives, urging me to redefine the parameters by which I live my life.
In 2018, as I embarked on a new career path, a subtle shift occurred. I found myself hiding a tattoo that once was completely the norm in the events and hospitality industry. I didn’t want potential employers and clients to see my tattoo and make assumptions about the kind of person I am. So I shrank in order to become less noticeable. I began noticing that all the photos of me during this period of my life was taken with my arms tightly hugging my body so the tattoos on my inner arms wouldn’t show - just like the picture above. While I look poised, and yes “professional”, I’m struggling to accept myself. This is a perfect example of how the dominance of professional monoliths limit our authenticity, especially as women of color. With the laundry list of obstacles we have to overcome in business and the workplace, do we really have to add hiding tattoos to that list?
Here’s what I’ve decided….
My tattoo is not a mark of rebellion but a celebration of individuality. In its ink, I find strength, creativity, and a testament to my journey. I will not yield to the pressure to conform. I’m confident in my work. My professionalism emanates from the quality of my work, the authenticity of my actions, and the passion that fuels my endeavors.
I will never hide my tattoo again. Or any other part of myself for that matter.
What is your definition of professionalism? Where did those ideas originate? As we embark on this introspective journey, let's embrace the beauty of diversity and individuality, allowing our true selves to shine.